What’s Love Got To Do With It? The Path of the Bodhisattva
With David Nichtern, Ethan Nichtern, Rebecca D’Onofrio, René Fay, Susan Layden, Brittaney Valentino, Noel Coakley, Seth Freedman and Duncan Trussell
April 30 - May 4, 2025
Sometimes the concept of compassion evokes images of passivity or over-accommodating kindness. In reality, compassion encompasses a dynamic spectrum, including the courage to confront challenges and make difficult decisions for ourselves and the greater good.
True compassion can also begin with connecting to ourselves—recognizing and meeting our own needs so that we can approach others from a place of wholeness. It’s about cultivating emotional self-regulation and learning to drop out of the constant churn of the mind and into the wisdom of the heart.
Join us for Dharma Moon’s 2nd Annual Meditation Retreat – where we’ll explore practical tools and Buddhist teachings on the bodhisattva path – to help awaken our hearts and lay the ground for personal and social transformation.
This 5-day in-person or online retreat will explore what it actually means to be a bodhisattva, bridging the ancient wisdom of these teachings to make them accessible, relevant, and applicable to our modern lives. Through talks, group discussions, extended meditation practice, and community, we’ll unpack what it really means to embody the bodhisattva path today.
Comedian Duncan Trussell and meditation teacher Ethan Nichtern will join David Nichtern and the Dharma Moon teaching team for engaging talks and thought-provoking panel discussions.
Surrounded by the natural beauty of the Catskill Mountains, this retreat will be an opportune chance to step away from the busyness of daily life and immerse yourself in practice, amazing food, and community.
During this retreat, we will lay the groundwork for and introduce the practice of tonglen, a meditation practice that dials down our sense of self importance and dials up our concern and empathy for others.
We will also address the notion of “compassion fatigue” and ways in which we can create a sustainable practice that feels energizing rather than heavy-handed and depleting.
Topics Covered During the Retreat:
- Cultivating the Bodhisattva Mentality
- Discovering a World Beyond Ego
- Understanding Emptiness & Compassion
- Qualities of an Awakened Heart
- Exploring Our True Nature
- Introduction to Tonglen Practice
- Introduction to the Six Paramitas
- Creating a Sustainable Practice
- How to be a Bodhisattva in the World
This is an open program and all levels of practice and study are welcome – whether you are an aspiring beginner or a well-seasoned practitioner, just bring your tender heart and beginner’s mind.
Schedule
Wednesday, April 30
- 3 – 6 pm Arrival and Check-in
- 6 – 7 pm Dinner
- 7:30 – 9 pm Welcome Session with Presenters & Support Staff
Thursday, May 1
- 8 – 9 am Breakfast
- 9:30 am – 12 pm Morning Meditation Session with Presenter Talk
- 12:30 – 1:30 pm Lunch
- 2:30 – 5:30 pm Afternoon Meditation Session with Presenter Talk
- 6 – 7 pm Dinner
- 7:30 – 9 pm Evening Meditation Session with Presenter Talk
Friday, May 2
- 8 – 9 am Breakfast
- 9:30 am – 12 pm Morning Meditation Session with Presenter Talk
- 12:30 – 1:30 pm Lunch
- 2:30 – 5:30 pm Afternoon Meditation Session with Presenter Talk
- 6 – 7 pm Dinner
- 7:30 – 9 pm Evening Meditation Session with Presenter Talk
Saturday, May 3
- 8 – 9 am Breakfast
- 9:30 am – 12 pm Morning Meditation Session with Presenter Talk
- 12:30 – 1:30 pm Lunch
- 2:30 pm – 5:30 pm Afternoon Meditation Session with Presenter Talk
- 6 – 7 pm Dinner
- 7:30 – 9 pm Evening Meditation Session with Presenter Talk
Sunday, May 4
- 7 – 11 am Check-out of Rooms
- 8 – 9 am Breakfast
- 10 am – 12 pm Morning Meditation Session and Panel Discussion
- 12:30 – 1:30 pm Lunch & Departure
*Please note that the schedule is subject to change.
About the Leaders
David Nichtern
David Nichtern is the founder and CEO of Dharma Moon - a mindfulness-based education platform and global community. He is a senior teacher in the lineage of Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche. This tradition combines a contemporary, secular approach to meditation with the ancient practices and philosophies of Tibetan Buddhism. David is also a four-time Emmy winner […]
Learn more about David NichternEthan Nichtern
Ethan Nichtern is the author of Confidence: Holding Your Seat through Life’s Eight Worldly Winds and several other titles, including the widely acclaimed The Road Home: A Contemporary Exploration of the Buddhist Path. A renowned contemporary Buddhist teacher and the host of The Road Home Podcast, Nichtern has offered meditation and Buddhist psychology classes at […]
Learn more about Ethan NichternRebecca D’Onofrio
Rebecca D’Onofrio is the Programming and Operations Director of Dharma Moon. She also serves as a senior teacher, providing training and mentoring support to the teaching team, and is the co-presenter of the Metta (Loving-Kindness) Meditation Teacher Training. Rebecca has been a dedicated practitioner of Tibetan Buddhism since 2013 and is a certified meditation teacher […]
Learn more about Rebecca D’OnofrioRené Fay
René is the Community Director for Dharma Moon. They are a certified mindfulness meditation teacher and death doula, they studied comparative religion and gender studies, and they earned their black belt at 17. René’s career has a long and extensive history of advocacy, with a focus on collaboration with, support of, and focus on: at-risk […]
Learn more about René FaySusan Layden
Susan Layden is a senior teacher with Dharma Moon, serving as the coordinator of the 100 hr Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Training program. She has been a close senior student of David Nichtern for over 10 years. She received her 100 hr meditation certificate from David Nichtern and Kaia Yoga. She is an experienced yoga and […]
Learn more about Susan LaydenBrittaney Valentino
Brittaney Valentino is an E-RYT 500, YACEP and mindfulness meditation teacher and owner of Rooted Nest LLC, a yoga and meditation company based in Wilmington, DE. She is also the co-founder of Embodied Mind LLC, a mindfulness-based consulting company. Along with offering online and in-person classes nationwide, she also moonlights as a senior teacher and […]
Learn more about Brittaney ValentinoNoel Coakley
Noel Coakley is a psychotherapist, meditation teacher and former elementary school special educator. He has studied Tibetan Buddhism since 1997 and the Bön tradition since 2013. He is a father, husband, and friend to a dog named Clementine. Noel is the director of the Boston Center of Contemplative Practice, a senior teacher of Dharma Moon, […]
Learn more about Noel CoakleySeth Freedman
Seth Freedman is Dharma Moon's Marketing and Communications Director. A long time student of meditation, he has worked in the field of mindfulness and meditation for over a decade and has built online platforms, created programming, and run marketing for many of the leading teachers and organizations today. His past clients include Calm, Google, Open […]
Learn more about Seth FreedmanDuncan Trussell
Duncan Trussell is a comedian, the host of the Duncan Trussell Family Hour podcast, and co-creator of The Midnight Gospel series on Netflix.
Learn more about Duncan TrussellCategory : Menla Retreat (all retreats)